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This article is about singles dating. Dating is an activity undertaken by a couple to assess mutual interest, compatibility and/ or to find love. Methods of dating continue to change but the basic considerations remain the same.
There are many types of singles dating. Traditional dating usually involves some type of entertainment, such as a movie, and dinner. Speed dating is a type of dating where individuals have the opportunity to talk to each other for a specified amount of time and then rotate. Single events dating is where a large group of singles meet for a certain event and are able to mingle. Online dating involves individuals going to a online dating site and submit a profile and perhaps fill out a questionaire. The dating site then matches people according to interests and compatibility. Cell phone dating and mobile dating are where singles talk, leave voicemail messages, or text each other in an effort to get know each better. Blind dates are dates that are set up by mutual friends.
You become sexy when you make the other person feel sexy or good. Being a great conversationalist is a great way to accomplish this. Start the conversation by being more of a listener than a talker. Ask open-ended questions that require more than a "yes" or "no answer." Ask about what the person is wearing. Ask about what the person did that day. Ask about something that happened in the news that day.
Keep the conversation going by continuing to be more of a listener than a talker. Occasionally add something about yourself so the other person can get to know you. Continue to ask open-ended questions. Show that you are interested in what the person has to say. Help the person feel good about his or her accomplishments or what they have to say. Try to find out what the person is passionate about. Try to find out what the person's purpose in life is. What makes him or her happy.
Try to read as much as possible so that you are a well-rounded individual. It is good to know a little about a wide range of topics and also to be aware of current events. That way you will be able to have topics to discuss and also be able to respond to the other person's interests. But remember to keep the spotlight on the other person and listen as much as possible.
It is also important how you end a conversation. End the conversation by telling the person you really enjoyed the conversation. Recap to the person what you took away from the conversation.
Here are some ways to be a good date. Becoming a better person will make you a better person, sexier, and thus a better date. If you want to find the right person, then be the right person. Always be kind to other people and animals. Find a sense of purpose so that you are happy and feel fulfilled. Help others find their sense of purpose and fulfillment. Be happy about other people's accomplishments. Don't be materialistic. Having more stuff won't make you happy. Volunteer. Be generous. Be optimistic. Look on the bright side. Don't complain about things.
Don't criticize others. Don't take yourself too seriously. Have a sense of humor. Learn to laugh. Exercise and eat right. The healthier you are, the happier you are. Be playful and fun. Be romantic. Be sincere. Be honest. Make other people feel important. Laugh when other people try to be funny. Read as much as possible so you have a sense of the world. Be confident. Don't worry about making mistakes, just learn from them. Be happy about your date's accomplishments and let her talk about them. Make your date feel important. Make your date feel that his or she is attractive.
It is important to remember that you become sexy when you make the other person feel sexy. It is like a halo effect. People will love being around you. But remember to always be kind, honest and sincere. Put others before yourself. Not only will it make the other person feel good, you will feel good about yourself.